After some consideration and a couple of trips to various offices, we have determined that testing for the BRCA+ gene is not practical, at this point.
It’s wildly expensive. At one of the meetings, I was shown a paper that said the average person who opts for this testing pays about a hundred dollars. At the second meeting with out HMO, they estimated a figure much higher than that. We simply can’t afford it. It doesn’t help that Katie will undergo oral surgery in two weeks.
I also learned something surprising during those meetings: the BRCA gene is expressed in men as prostate cancer. My dad went through a round of radiation for prostate cancer a couple years ago. So maybe it is genetic. It probably isn’t, but it might be, That’s not good.
I know what this testing will tell me, but I don’t necessarily know what I would do with the information. There’s nothing I can do about it. I want Katie to be able to make decisions about her health, but is she chooses, she can get the testing later in life.